Just on the topic of Robert Iler, this is a pretty sad moment for the fans of the show. So I can only imagine how it must be for people who actually knew him, worked with him, and in Robert's case, grew up in front of him. I think everyone grieves in their own way. I know I would not feel comfortable going to a place surrounded by cameras and potentially being a crying mess. When you are in the spotlight there are a lot of things you have to take into consideration--stuff that the rest of us don't anyway. I am definitely giving the benefit of the doubt to him in this case.